and every time I matched back with them and sent them a message, no matter how short or long, witty or basic, they never replied back. Then slowly after that for a few days I would get likes from nice cute locals, just one here, one there. Then about every hour on the hour would get another one, another like from China, another like from Tanzania, utter nonsense! 18 of the 20 were literally from other countries, China, Venezuela, Brazil, Singapore, fake fake fake! Like a sucker I paid $60 to get a single month just to see if it was worth using. Lol.Įxactly the same experience here, made a new account 1 week ago, literally before I finished filling out my profile and uploading pictures also had actually almost exactly 20 likes as well. I told her she needed it as well and she gave it two sessions before quitting.Ī lot of things were wrong in my marriage and I won't be making many of the same mistakes in the future, IF I ever date again. When we separated, she told me I needed therapy and I dove into it. I wish I had started therapy LONG BEFORE the divorce. She spent a lot of time there (still does as far as I know) and that site is fucking cancer.Īll-in-all, we were both codependent and unhealed from traumatic childhoods. I also think her mind was poisoned by Tumblr. So much so that, being convinced kids were not in my cards, I allowed her to convince me to get a vasectomy. The idea of giving birth became a nightmare to her. Somewhere along the line, almost like a switch flipped, she hated kids and wanted none. When we met, all she wanted was to get married, have kids and be a stay at home mom. I think I was already pretty set I who I was, while she changed completely over the years. I think I met my wife when she was 20 and I was 27. It feels like the holy grail of dating an oasis in the desert, a pure and innocent maiden yet to be corrupted. Unfortunately, bots and scams will always be a problem, but as of now, since the community is so small, it is almost pristine and you can really tell when a profile is fake (most of the times, at least). My fear is that in the event that it ever blows up, there is a high chance that its creators might want to benefit from it by implementing premium features, but I'm not sure about that since the site has been around since 1998. Still, it can perfectly be used as a dating site as well. ![]() The only problem is virtually no one knows about it and the few people that actually do mainly use it to find penpals or to practice languages, which is fair since that's what the app was made for in the first place. It has EVERYTHING for FREE, including a detailed filter that lets you search for key words. Interpals is the perfect dating app, far better than anything else I've seen. Well, he didn't seem to know that my country is landlocked. Someone whose location showed a very small town in my country and he claimed to be here, claimed to have sailed here with the US Navy that he works for. Someone wrote something and I replied "that's a catch 22", and he didn't know what it meant. ![]() Like someone who claimed to be from Utah and did not know what a Mormon was. And then, obviously, lack of cultural knowledge. But of course, it's never only the language, also the tell-tale generic statements about themselves, never replying to specific questions, and their manipulative language. But using articles wrongly in idioms (like your "catch the wind" instead of "catch wind") is a sign. Yes, "should of" is a common American mistake, so I do not count that. Be sure to use your Reddit username so other users can recognize you!Įnglish is my second language, too, but I am an English teacher and an avid linguist, so I pay a lot of attention to detail. You first have to register here, then click on this link and join #okchat. Most posts are posted at 1pm EST Fashion Friday is posted at 2:30pm EST. Submit screenshot links to your profile so you get maximum views, as not everyone has your particular dating app.Please read these rules for posting critiques before posting your own!. ![]()
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